Friday, March 15, 2019

What A Girl Wants

While these are beyond my basic relationship needs, I feel like they are also important, and what I would want to find in a partner.  I don't know if I will ever find these, but what a dream. 

- A man that knows how I take my coffee (even though I make it for myself everyday).  It's pretty simple.  I always take it in my Yeti travel cup (even though I work from home, I sip slowly).  Texas Pecan medium roast (Texas, you got me!).  A scoop of collagen powder, 3 tablespoons organic 1/2 and 1/2 heated in the microwave for 15 seconds.  1/4 pipette of caramel toffee stevia liquid, in the cream, then use my little milk frother to mix it up.  That's it. 

- A man that will get me everything I need when I'm having bad menstrual cramps (this is THE DREAM).  Is the remote near me?  Is my heating pad plugged in next to me?  Do I have my ice pack?  Do I want ibuprofen? Is my weed pen in reachable range?  Is my water cup full and has lots of ice in it?  Is the ceiling fan on?  And can you ask, " is there anything food wise I can get for you?" and also, when he gets back with a California burrito--with extra red sauce containers, "do you want me around to cuddle you, or would you like me to fuck off somewhere out of sight?"

- A man that can cook a meal decently when I don't want to, without me having to give him every step, multiple times.  And if he grills for us, he knows that I like my meat somewhat charred around the edges.

- A man that knows his way around a grocery store, and will only text me important questions, not ask me where something basic is.

- A man that will take my car to get it's oil changed, only because I mentioned that I needed to do it that week or weekend, and I really hate sitting around in car repair shops with creepy men. 

- Speaking of cars, if he is washing his out in the driveway, that he washes mine as well.

- A man that knows my default order at the restaurants we frequent.  Occasionally I will branch out and try something new, but for certain places, I like the same thing.  At the pizzeria I love, chicken piccata pizza, house salad with grilled chicken, ranch dressing and extra ranch on the side (honestly I need a man that won't judge me for my love of pizza parlor runny ranch dressing).  Thai food, drunken noodles, always and forever, with a cup of Tom Kha.  In n Out, double double, animal style, wrapped in lettuce, add chilis, with a chocolate shake, fuck the fries. 

- If I get really bad news, I want a man that will ask me "what can I do?" instead of "let me know if there is anything I can do".  There is a difference.

I know there are more little things, but this is just off the top of my head.  What are little extra things that you want from a partner?

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